MAKING YOUR MARRIAGE WORK II
Memorise: And said, For this cause shall a man leave father and mother, andshall cleave to his wife: and they twain shall be one flesh. Matthew 19:5
Read: Ephesians 5:21-25, 21 Submitting yourselves one to another in the fear of God.
Bible in one year: Matthew 9:27-12:8, Job 12:1-12
A marriage that has God in it is the best thing that can happen to any child of God. The Bible says:
“Whoso findeth a wife findeth a good thing, and obtaineth favour of the Lord.”
This scripture unequivocally dismisses the wrong notion of marriage being a burden. For your marriage to work, our memory verse for today reveals the first obligation on the part of the man (the husband) towards his wife: you must strictly adhere to this twin-command – leaving your parents and cleaving to your wife. Some men never leave their parents, particularly their mother. They are “mummy’s boys” and after marriage they still ‘eat from their mother’s pot’ on regular basis. This habit destroys a marriage relationship fast.
Unconditional love is another obligation a husband must perform towards his wife. This kind of love will make the man give his entire being to his wife without expecting anything in return. The Bible says:
“Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the Church, and gave himself for it”
unfortunately, do not know what it means to be married. Marriage could be regarded
as giving of one’s self to one’s spouse. Paul, an apostle of Jesus Christ, gave
the real picture of marital obligation when he wrote:
“But I would have you without carefulness. He that is unmarried careth for the things that belong to the Lord, how he may please the Lord: But he that is married careth for the things that are of the world, now he may please his wife”
1st Corinthians 7:32-33
The truth in the above passage is that a man is under obligation to cater for his wife and to have an unreserved commitment to the joy and well-being of his wife. Some so-called Christians are so careless about their marriage that they neglect the divine mandate of caring for the family. As a result, the wife becomes disillusioned about the faith and the children vow never to follow their father to worship God. At the end of the day, the failure of the family eventually affects their Christian walk and ministry. Love must be experimental and substantial, men must show their love practically, and their spouses will not be in doubt as to whether or not they are loved.
Father, please give me the ability to love my spouse unconditionally.